Thinking Summer…

Inspiration: Untitled Photo by Angela d’Avignon, Clouds via Pinterest, Flowers via Pinterest, Sky at Dusk via Pinterest, Beach via Tumblr. As for the lingerie, you can find it in my shop!

Midnight Velvet Lingerie Set

I also am doing triangle bras (yes, the bra below is a hack of my Brigette Triangle Bra Pattern, and showing you how to do this is on my To Do List!).  I’m a fairly busty lady, and I have to say, I’ve been wearing nothing but the long line, triangle, and cross-over wrap bra for the last few months. I try to put on an underwire bra and I just can’t make it through the day.  I get quite a few messages asking if I do underwire bras, and the answer is, “no, and I don’t plan to.” First of all, there are plenty of nice underwire bras out there in a variety of price points points and styles.  If you disagree, just hop over to Figleaves and try to tell me you can’t find something you like!  But most of all, I really like the shape that a soft bra gives.  Most people are used to the super round, bowling ball shape that foam push-up bras give, and while that is all fine and good and has it’s place, there is also a place for a comfortable bra that feels like you’re wearing nothing at all.  I have to say, the natural shape and curve of the bust, waist, and hip is just so pretty… why not show it off? A soft bra provides a bit of support while still showing off your natural curves.  One thing I will say is if you have exclusively worn underwired, padded bras your whole life like I had, switching to a soft bra does feel strange (kind of like you’re half naked), but for me, it’s hard to go back to the bowling ball boob look.

Tropical Floral Lingerie Set

 The other thing that was really important to me when I started Ohhh Lulu was trying to represent a realistic body type.  I don’t think I’ve always been successful at this, and the longer I run this business, I realize how hard it is to try to represent everyone.  My resources are minimal and models and photo shoots are costly. Some models and photographers will work on trade, but there is still the time and cost involved in preparing and sending samples…  When I first started Ohhh Lulu, I thought I’d use myself as a model. I’m petite, but otherwise a fairly average person (ie. I certainly don’t have thigh gap). I soon found that modelling/taking photos is not as easy as one might think and that it is also extremely time consuming.  However, I think there is some merit in seeing clothes on your “Average Josephine.”  I really do wish I had the resources to represent multiple body types, skin tones, aesthetics, etc, but as a DIY shop owner, it’s really hard… way harder than I thought it would be! There is a lot of pressure and competition to have the right look… I was spending so much time worrying about my photos and stressing that I wasn’t living up to the competition that I feel like my designs suffered. So, I said “Screw it!” and I diy’ed it.  I still plan on doing some professional photos down the road, but as I said earlier, I’m going back to basics.  I am a DIY’er.  DIY is what I do! DIY is what Ohhh Lulu is all about. All the power to the DIY’ers!

Black Satin Basics

 So, I’m pretty happy (despite this miserable weather). In the past year or so I found it really hard not to compare myself and feel a sense of competition with other businesses, and I really hated that feeling.  Of course, I want to run a successful business and be the best that I can be, but most importantly, I want it to be fun.  For a while, it wasn’t so fun… it was really stressful! I was trying to run my business the way I saw others run theirs… and that’s not for me. Like a lot of creative-types, I’m highly self critical.  I looked at what everyone else was doing, everyone else looks so professional and like they’ve got it all figured out.  I needed to remind myself that what I do is for me, not for the approval of anyone else (but in the hopes that other people will share my passion).  I am glad I was able to take a step back and concentrate on what’s really important… Pretty lingerie!!!

Black Satin Basics